Grief and the Body (Somatic Ritual)
When to Use It: When grief gets stuck in your chest, throat, or limbs. When your body forgets how to breathe.
Why It Matters: Grief is physical. This is how you remember to be in your body again.
Steps:
Lay on the floor. Feel the ground under you.
Place one hand on your chest, one on your belly.
Breathe in for 4 counts, out for 6. Repeat 5 times.
Stretch slowly. Move how your body wants to move.
Say, “I am still here.”
Optional Add-Ons:
Do a slow grief dance to one special song.
Practice this each week at the same time.
Use essential oils or soft fabrics.
Blessing:
“This body has carried me through the unthinkable. And still, it breathes. And still, it remembers. And still, it moves.”