Frequently Asked Questions

Grief doesn’t come with a handbook, and neither does writing about it.
People often ask how my books began, what a grief writing workshop looks like,
or whether it’s okay if they never share the words they write.

Here are the questions I’m asked most often - answered with as much honesty, clarity,
and comfort as I can offer.

If your question isn’t here, you’re welcome to reach out. I’d love to hear from you.

My Books

When will your book be available?

The Year After Kahlia is my memoir about surviving the first year after losing my daughter.
It’s finished and currently with publishers. Publishing takes time (a lot more than writing,
as it turns out), but it will make its way into the world.

If you’d like to know when it’s released, you can join my mailing list here.

Are you writing anything else?

Always. I’ll write about grief for the rest of my life… not because of the tragedy,
but because love doesn’t end.

Right now my main focus is The Year After Kahlia, but more projects are already forming.
Writing is how I keep speaking into the silence.

Workshops & Writing Through Grief

What is a grief writing workshop?

A safe, gentle space where you get to write through grief using guided prompts,
simple rituals, and time to breathe. No writing experience needed.
It’s about honesty, not grammar.

Do I need to share what I write?

No. Sharing is always optional.
The page listens, even if no one else does.

Who are your workshops for?

Anyone grieving. That may mean the death of someone you love, or it may be another
kind of loss; identity shifts, relationships, health, or the self you used to be.
Grief has many shapes.

How do I join a writing circle or retreat?

Keep an eye on my website or join my mailing list. I post upcoming dates there,
and you can book directly through the site.

Grief & Support

What if I’m not ready to talk about my grief?

That’s okay. Writing can help you “say” what your voice isn’t ready to speak yet.
It lets the unspeakable come out slowly.

Is grief writing therapy?

Not officially- I’m not a therapist.
But writing can be deeply therapeutic. It often sits alongside therapy, community,
or whatever support you already have.

Why do you focus on writing about grief?

Because grief needs words.
Silence can hurt more than the grief itself.
Writing helps give shape to the mess inside.

My Work & Why I Do It

Why did you start this work?

Because after Kahlia died, writing was how I survived.
It was the only way I could tell the truth about what I was carrying.

Now I create spaces for others to do the same; to speak, write, breathe,
and not feel alone inside their grief.

Can I book you to speak or run a workshop?

Yes. I speak at events, workplaces, and community groups,
and I also run private grief writing sessions.
Use the contact page to get in touch.

Your questions matter.
If you’re carrying one that isn’t answered here, you’re welcome to get in touch.
You don’t have to navigate this alone.