Survival Kits

For When Flowers Don’t Help

Grief is not something to be fixed.
But it can be witnessed. Held. Honoured.

These kits were born from that need; the kind of comfort I craved when my world cracked open. Not a bunch of lilies that would wilt in a week, but real, tangible things that say:

“I see you. You’re not alone. Here’s something to hold while you survive this.”

Whether you’re deep in grief yourself or trying to show up for someone who is, these kits offer more than sympathy. They offer presence.

A gift for Yourself, or Someone You Love

Sometimes you need the permission to fall apart.
Sometimes you want to give someone else that permission.

Each kit is designed to do just that.

A bedside table arrangement with a small potted succulent, a lit white candle in a glass jar, a gray grief journal, a round stone labeled "ROOTED," a white card with black text titled "Rooted & Remembered," a beige cloth, and two decorative stones.

Rooted and Remembered kit

A grief ritual kit with a living plant, a candle, and a journal; for memory, growth, and love that stays.

A gift box containing a white mug with the text 'F**K IT', a beige card that says 'UNTIDY GRIEF for the days you can't', a small white candle, a heart-shaped white marble stone with gold veins, a smaller beige stone, a small bottle of soothing oil, and a square card that says 'PERMISSION to be a mess'.

Untidy Grief Kit

A kit for the raw days; a swear mug, a scream journal, a truth card set and a no-BS permission to feel it all

A cozy scene with a wool sock, a small essential oil bottle, a wooden stone marked 'BREATHE', a cup of herbal tea, and a small drawstring pouch with lavender flowers, all arranged on a beige fabric surface, with a card that reads 'Gentleness still survival.'

The Gentle Things

A soft comfort kit; tea, socks, a mug, scent, and quiet kindness you can hold in your hands.

A flat lay of a grief journal, cards with botanical illustrations, a small glass vial of herbs, a black pen, a black roller bottle, a stone heart with the word "HERE" engraved, and a card with the quote "Write it down. You don't have to make sense. You just have to make space" on a beige fabric background.

The Writing Companion

For those who write their way through pain or try. A journal, a pen, and gentle prompts to hold the words.

A black-and-white book titled "The Year After Kahlia" showing two women hugging, a lit candle with a message that reads "This light is for the love that didn’t end," a small note saying "You don’t have to okay. I just wanted you feel held," and a dried flower on a beige fabric surface.

The Book + A Candle (Coming Soon)

A memoir written in the dark, paired with a soft flame to honour the light that still flickers.

A serene forest scene with sunlight filtering through trees, a wooden bench beside a small stream, and white flowers in the foreground. Overlaid text reads: 'The Grief Journal: A guided space for what grief won't let you say out loud.'

The Guided Grief Journal

For the thoughts that don’t fit in conversations. A quiet place to write, rage, reflect, or simply breathe onto the page.